Yin to his Yang

I've been told by a close friend about a girl, who has helped him with a problem he's been having lately. I won't bore you with the details but long story short he's a bit in love with a girl he hasn't even seen naked. Bless him. Anyway he was having a really hard time rationalising all of this shit that's been going on so he spoke to the girl I mentioned in the first sentence - Jacqui Brough. He also tells me that she has a blog and is willing to help me out with mine, well what an absolute angel. Not only is she queen of matters of the heart but also when it comes to this whole blogging malarkey this girl knows her shit apparently. Anyway back to my friend Monsieur BT.

So BT has been a bit crazy about the second girl mentioned (KG) for a while but I trained him to be a little too much like my dark side. As much as it would kill him to admit it, 5 years ago he was a lovely, sweet boy. Then he got his heart broken. Then he met me. I took the poor lad under my wing and with my help he became a version of me. But he got a little too good at it and unlike me, couldn't keep himself grounded. So away he floats for 3 and a half years. Then he meets KG and apparently his new heart collides with his old one and he's completely cunt struck. Truly fucking mad for this girl within a few months but he doesn't know what to do. (I appreciate that I am actually recounting the story but I had more time than at first thought so here it is from my point of view.) He tries everything, pushing her away from him, pulling her close, ignoring her, complimenting her, being a dick, being a nice guy (but I always told him being nice gets you nowhere). Now he truly is nowhere. This girl has left him high and dry. Don't you women always say that men are the cruelest species? Well you're wrong. You are. BT has told me all of his little heartaches and breaks and believe me, there is enough in their to make me reconsider my opinion of the female species. By the way BT I apologise for the fact I'm about to do this but it's for your own benefit. He has been cheated on and lied to more times and by more women than any man ever deserves. Now he wonder's if he's too fucked for a relationship. Believe me mate, if I'm not then you're not ok?

Now, dear readers, here comes the question. BT has sent this girl a text message when he was completely sober about a lovely little incident that happened 'tween the two of them none too far in the past. I do not condone reliving past memories when sober. It's bad for the soul. But he's done it. Anyway my question is, if this girl doesn't contact him, or does contact him and doesn't say yes to the fact that he's asked her to be with him, what do you think he should do?

a) Not give up, he's clearly head over heels for this girl so why should he give up on her so easily?
b) Forget it. Move on. Bigger and better things and blah blah blah?
c) Go back to how he was before falling for KG and live the life I showed him (chemicals and debauchery)?
d) None of the above. (Please offer alternate solution)

BT and I look forward to your answers. But hurry, he's on a tight schedule.

Spencer X

P.S. Do me a favour my loves, check out Jacqui's blog. She has helped my best friend out when he was in a sticky situation, the least you can do is visit her blog. Don't be heartless.
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Loves. X